Do you sit around and think about the reasons why you are still single? If so, this post is for you. There might be things keeping you from getting a boyfriend that you didn’t even realize you were doing!
I’m not blaming you 100% of why you are still single, but most of the time you are to blame for the reasons why you are single. I’m just going to be blunt.
Of course, there are hundreds of thousands of men out there… even millions… that aren’t perfect for you. You aren’t going to like every single guy you go on a date with. But 5 times out of 10, the reason why you’re still single isn’t because of the men. It’s because of you.
Here are some of the main reasons why you’re still single.
Top Reasons Why You Are Still Single
I hear this one time and time again when my girlfriends ask me what’s “wrong with them” or “why are they still single”. Maybe you should listen to yourself when you get together with your girlfriends after a date. You’re being overly picky.
“He eats too weird”, “I didn’t feel the attraction”, and other excuses come out of our mouths more than we would like to admit. Maybe it’s time to go outside of your “type” and broaden your horizons when you go out on dates.
Dissatisfied With Your Life
Another reason why women are single is that they don’t truly know what they want out of life/aren’t satisfied with your life. Maybe you aren’t in the right place career-wise or something just feels “off”. Let’s be real ladies…you have to be happy with your life before you’ll ever be happy sharing your life with someone else.
That is why so many women get divorced when they get married too young. At 18 years old, the world seems so big but you aren’t satisfied with your life. Settling down so quickly may hinder your ability to learn who you truly are and become satisfied with you and your life.
Dating The Wrong Type
The final reason I believe women are still single is that they are dating the wrong “type” of men. (Like stated in reason #1.) A ton of women are attracted to the bad boy exterior but they also don’t like being taken advantage of or treated poorly.
Again, you end up dating the kind of person you believe you deserve. Try going outside your type! What can hurt? You’ll probably get a free dinner out of it anyway and come back with interesting stories if it doesn’t work out. If it does work out, feel free to thank yourself for stepping outside of the box.
These are just a couple of the main reasons why women are still single. There are still going to be horrible dates in the future but maybe this will help you on your journey to finding your true love.